The 7 Secrets to Peace of Mind by Tony Charles

Author:Tony Charles [Charles, Tony]
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 9781475918540
Publisher: iUniverse
Published: 2012-06-19T00:00:00+00:00

HONESTY IS STILL THE BEST POLICY

In anything you say or do, remember that honesty is always the best policy. Remember also that it is always very important to use honest words. Using honest words is what is commonly known as using true words. Thus, The 7 Secrets to Peace of Mind has been designed to remind you that the use of true words is one of the best ways to have a sustainable peace of mind.

For these very important reasons, it is always better to think before you say anything. The old French adage, “Turn your tongue seven times in your mouth before speaking,” makes a lot of sense here, but the idea of true words most importantly means not rejecting, judging, or criticizing yourself through the language you use. In other words, do not use your own words against yourself.

It is also advisable not to use your words falsely against anybody. For example, if you meet someone you take a particular dislike to and treat him or her as if he or she is an idiot or a nonentity, even if you do not say anything out loud, you are using your words falsely against that person. As a result, this person may also hate you, and his or her hatred will not do you any good at all.

So if you get angry and use your words to send others your emotional poison, you are in fact using your words against yourself. On the other hand, if you love yourself, you will inevitably and honestly express that love in your interactions with other people. Therefore, your words should always be honest. As a result, your actions will produce similar reactions.

The psychology is, if you honestly love others, others will honestly love you too. If you behave selfishly toward them, they will behave in the same way toward you. If you use your words to cast spells on others, you are also unconsciously casting spells on yourself and so on. That is what is meant by, “Whatever you do to others, you are doing it to yourself.”

Honestly, true words also mean you should not use your words to insult, criticize, blame, destroy, or harm others emotionally through the expression of anger, jealousy, envy, hatred, etc. Rather, make good use of your words. This means you should use your words for truth and for self-respect. Always do your best not to create chaos with your words by using them in a disrespectful or dishonest way. Just remember that dishonestly using your words to create discord between people, families, tribes, nations, religious groups, political parties, races, etc. means generating and perpetuating a hellish nightmare. Therefore, never make speaking badly of others your principal form of using your words.

Now please take a moment and really be honest with yourself. Think very honestly of how many times you have nefariously used dishonest and negative words to describe someone you are close to with the sole aim of pulling him down. Or just think very

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